Conrady 6.4.21

MAJOR CONFLICT

MINOR CONFLICT

MAJOR CONFLICT

MINOR CONFLICT

When Jess embarrassed Tasha when she sent the text message to Troy

When Tasha got really upset.

When Troy showed the message around the school

When Troy showed the text to other kids, when Tasha yelled at Jess, and when their friends chose sides

When Jess embarrassed Tasha when she sent the text message to Troy

When Tasha got really upset.

When Troy showed the message around the school

When Troy showed the text to other kids, when Tasha yelled at Jess, and when their friends chose sides

Jess did not do anything wrong. It is okay to use your friend's phone without asking.

Jess used Tasha’s phone without asking. She could have asked first, or thought about Tasha’s feelings. She could have apologized.

Jess is the only one to blame for the entire conflict. It is all her fault.

Jess was just being a good friend. She should have yelled back at Tasha in front of all their friends.

Troy shared the message with lots of people. He could have deleted it or not shared it.

Troy can share whatever he wants if it is on his phone.

Troy could have broken up the fight between Tasha and Jess when Tasha yelled at Jess in front of all their friends.

Troy did nothing wrong. He was just being a good friend and wanted everyone to know how nice Tasha was.

Tasha did nothing wrong. She had every right to yell at Jess because it was Jess' fault the conflict happened in the first place.

Tasha acted when she was upset. She could have used an emotion-management strategy to calm down before talking to Jess.

Tasha is to blame for the entire conflict because she left her phone out of sight.

Tasha calmed down and talked to her friends in a nice tone.

Their friends cause the whole problem between Tasha, Troy and Jess.

Their friends were never a part of the conflict.

Their friends chose sides. They could have stayed out of the conflict or encouraged Jess and Tasha resolve it.

Their friends are not choosing sides, so the conflict is only minor.