yell at them until they leave you alone

roll your eyes and walk away

ignore them completely

tell them you are not ready to talk yet

Feeling disappointed

Disagreeing with your parents

Yelling at your best friend

A difficult classmate

talk respectfully

call names

walk away

a time when people get along well

a strong disagreement or argument between people

a joke between friends

I don't know

Saying whatever you believe is honest and true no matter what

Treating others the way they treat you

Treating others the way you want to be treated

Blow up

Walk away

Peaceful, direct confrontation

Isha wants to do Karate and Faman wants to do swimming

Arbaz let Faman play with his tab

a struggle between opposing forces or characters

a happy family with no issues

a complete sentence

nodding your head

making eye contact

trying to really listen

dancing

Ayesha let her younger sister eat the only ice cream

Arohi doesn't share her tiffin with Sara

Tushi loves her cat

the other person

the problem you're trying to solve

Seeing a part of the story

Seeing things from another's point of view

Accepting all opinions as right

Your dog

Parent

Teacher

Another classmate

Your goldfish

Throwing rock when the other person throws scissors

Running away

Compromising

You still need to be friends with everyone

You only need to be friendly to people who are friendly to you

You can still be friendly

take a deep breath

call names

scream at them

Talking

Showing your emotions

Deep breathing

Listening

Choose a solution.

Share your feelings.

Stop being friends with the person.

Calm down.

Waiting until you are calm to talk

Rolling your eyes & using a sarcastic tone of voice

Getting help from an adult or friend

Summarizing & Clarifying

Understand

Talk

Disagree

Smile

It sounds like you're saying______. Am I understanding you correctly?

I understand what you’re saying. Here are my thoughts…

Do you get what I'm saying? No? Oh well. You just don't get me, do you?

That’s interesting. What do you think about this...?

Calm down.

Tell the person you don't want to be their friend anymore.

Share your feelings.

Choose a solution.

Trista should call Rob names.

Rob should push Trista.

They should both walk away to calm down.

Share your feelings.

Go out for pizza.

Calm down.

Choose a solution.

use an I statement to explain how you feel ('I feel...')

grumble under your breath and hope they get the point

complain to someone else about them

accuse them of being annoying ('You are...')

to get ready to scream

to get ready to fight

to calm down

understanding the feelings of another person

being unable to understand a person's feelings

when you feel sad

a feeling of anger at someone for how they feel

They play each game for an hour.

They don't hang out at all

They play basketball

They argue until one person gives in

when you let someone win a game

when you walk away feeling upset

when a person or group gives up something in order to reach an agreement

when you compare two things

Joyful

Confused

Upset

to feel better

to calm down

to make worse

to share feelings

internal

external

a person who makes the conflict worse

a person who helps people solve conflicts together

a person who paints pictures

a person who is mean

meditation

conflict

reading

Amusement

Sadness

Confusion

Rage

The more people you involve, the better.

Talking behind someone's back really helps.

Asking to speak directly with the person you are mad at is a good first step.

It's a good idea to tell all of your friends what the someone did to upset you, so they can be mad with you.

staying calm

stomping off

screaming at each other

A ballplayer

A lawyer

A judge

A businessperson

Stop being friends with them.

Try taking time away from each other.

Talk about them behind their back.

internal

external

They see your side of things

They want to be your friend

They don't really care

They get angry

All of these!

Listening carefully to the other person's words.

Taking time to understand the other person's perspective.

Being patient and not interrupting.

Selfish

Persuasive

Unintelligent

Helpful

True

False

"How could you do something so horrible?"

"You have no right to touch my things!"

"That was really mean and thoughtless."

"I'm upset that you threw away my comics."

Lose-Lose (no one gets what they want)

Win-Lose (only one person gets what they want)

Win-Win (both people benefit)

No resolution (conflict continues)

You

Your best friend

Your teacher

Your classmate's brother

man vs. self

man vs. man

man vs. nature

man vs. society

C, B, A

A, C, B

B, A, C

A, B, C

Great ideas for problem solving

Common roadblocks to problem solving

Helpful during active listening

Ways to make a new friend

man vs. self

man vs. man

man vs. nature

man vs. society

The same as tattling

The same as snitching

Getting help from someone to solve a problem

Trying to get someone in trouble

man vs. self

man vs. man

man vs. nature

man vs. society

Hope Joe stops on his own.

Ask an adult to handle it for him.

Say something mean back to Joe next time.

Let Joe know that it's starting to bother him and ask him to stop.

man vs. self

man vs. man

man vs. nature

man vs. society

Talk louder so Ana gets the point.

Say something like, 'Ana, I'm feeling frustrated when you talk while I'm talking because I'm not getting a chance to share. I need you to wait your turn please.'

Give up trying and sit quietly.

Raise your hand so your teacher will come deal with it.

man vs. man

man vs. self

man vs. nature

man vs. society

All of these!

Approach them calmly and ask to talk about it.

Use a strategy to get out of the red zone before bringing it up.

Use 'I statements' to explain how you feel and what you would like to be different.

man vs. man

man vs. self

man vs. nature

man vs. society

man vs. man

man vs. self

man vs. nature

man vs. society

man vs. man

man vs. self

man vs. nature

man vs. society