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​https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5yCOSHeYn4

​Should I say the comment?

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• ​Would I like if someone made this comment about me?​

• ​Is it something that the person can change in less than a minute?

• Would I be sharing someone's personal business?

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• ​Has someone already asked me to not say it?

Can the person change it in less than a minute?

​Examples of "YES!"

Someone's voice level

an untied shoe

something in their teeth

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​Examples of "NO!"

​Their general appearance

Their hair texture

Their voice

Gender

race/ethnicity

​sexual orientation

​Things too Personal to comment on:

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• Comments about the person’s family or friends

• Anything that you would not someone else commenting on about yourself

• ​Anything that you'd be embarrassed if someone shared

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What examples do you have?

​RECAP

​WHAT ARE THE QUESTIONS WE SHOULD ASK BEFORE WE SAY SOMETHING?

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​WHAT ARE OTHER THINGS WE CAN CONSIDER BEFORE MAKING A COMMENT?

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​IN WHAT WAYS CAN WE STOP OURSELVES FROM MAKING HARMFUL COMMENTS?

​THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND RESPECT!